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Life According To Sabrina Ben Salmi BSc
Life According To Sabrina Ben Salmi BSc

Episode 5 · 2 years ago

Episode #5: Interview on the Ronnie J Show Part #2

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Interview on the Ronnie J Show Part #2 sharing my views about confidence


For more information about Ronnie visit his website: www.cancelcancerafrica.org

So it rightly so. If I kind of took you into the cockpit of a boone aircraft, you're going to go, well, I'm not confident to fly this plane. You know, what about all the passengers lives I've got in my hand? You know, there's so much pressure. I don't feel confident, I can never do this. But would you agree speaking to a pilot does it all day, every day, doesn't have that same issue that you had? Absolutely, yeah. So one of the advices that I tend to give people is that confidence comes with practice and wherever you're trying to indulge in, to grow, to develop some sort of comprehension in how often do you spend time playing in the arena? That's it, you know, like to get into step into public speaking was the worst thing in the last one I'll ever do. And it was like no, and I had a guy have a coach for Shell Chapman. Sherl Chapman got me in a lot of trouble. I hated public speaking. It went against everything I like. I like to be behind the scene, but when I realized that actually, what...

I desire to share with the world is going to impact lies, it's not so much just about me. It's also about people. So there's two ways. So, yes, it's experiential learning, yes, it's immersion, but sometimes, as yet, if you're not clear when your why, the how is super hard. The minute you have clarity around why are you doing this, was the bigger picture that this is for the rest is history. When I got together, is that there's people in the audience that I can touch and impact. When I realize that by doing this I can inspire my children, when I realize that actually, all these thoughts that I'm having in my head, I can stay here forever and never know, never experience, never grow in this aspect or arena I desire to delve into, or I could just give it a go at my why got me there. Wow. But, having said that, talking about having a clear vision, having a clear idea of what we want to do, even if we have those clear I'm...

...talking from a Jeror perspective at the moment, even if we have a look clear vision, we have a clear we will want to go and then we start and we hit this barrier and then how conting. This man really can't do this. What is your take to that? Simple really, you don't have to do it on your own. One of the biggest a loving this conspection we have is that we have to know be do it all ourselves. Yeah, and the truth is like, if we really look into society and all the great here is, we look to they had a team, and the truth is that your operating as a one member or you're the only person, the only captain in your ship. We have no crew members. If you're the only one that's always firing off and tend everyone, let's go. Let's go without a team that are just as excited as you, it's going to be such an arduous talk. The Way to get past the brick wall it's really to hire a coach and hire a mental. Does that make sense? Absolutely. See, with your coach and mental, they won't give you somewhere to high. They won't give you the opportunity to you know, I...

...don't like when people say, Oh, you're just making an excuses, because the truth is some of our reality is a reality for us because we're so closely associated it. So we have the emotional aspect. So I don't like saying to people of you're just making excuses. Man, I believe that you need to actually have an array of mentals and coaches in your life to get you moving. Okay, because those moments when we go we can't do it's just that we're stopped. We've just stopped with going, okay, I can't do this, I'm not moving, and the pain sets in. But when you've got a coach and mentor in your life, when you surround yourself with people that are being and doing what you desire to do, it's not so much of a strengerous class you're then again, I mean some of some people might been listening to you talking now and they are yes, she's saying all those sounds so easy and it go just to go and get a ment to. How can I find a Mentu even need to tell me what to do. US Do don't have the time to do with Bulloh. I tend to...

...find because I talked to a lot of people and try to help people as they can, I tend to find out the biggest challenge people have it's just the ability to say to himself and going to do this. Oh, mindset. Absolutely, you know that's there. They are habitual actions in every family. So you've got a look at am I teachable. The truth is no one can get you anywhere less you're teachable. That's the first presence you see. If you're saying to me to bring a lets out, a chat and on like, prove it. What's going on. Yeah, that's what you say. It's easy for you. I'm not. I'm not in the premise for being teachable the minute I say, you know, I find it hard to see what you can see. But I'm open to learning. I'm open to start taking steps. See often the world we're taught to look at the world and say, you know, you're not giving me, you're not showing me, you're not. But actually it's a case of am I getting in my own way? Because that's the mindset aspect, and you've touched on it, is that without the right mindset, the Noun, the mindset, is the foundation for everything to without that mindset, how can you see what's on...

...your doorstep? How can you have those conversations? See, I had conversations with some people and you know, not judging people, I'm just saying it. We just got be mindful where we are. By beautiful. How you doing? Can I have your number? So I haven't met you before. Oh well, you said you were a coach. So, like, I thought you could show what you do. We cut it. See, did you understand? It's like we want things in a certain way and then we're saying it's not working. But why are we not questioning ourselves as well? Because the truth is it's twofold. See, someone can put everything in your hands and the only reason it's not moving forward is mindset. What is the clear plan of small steps in the right direction each day? What are you doing small task routines? Like we've got a tap into what the thought processes that you have in, what the conversations that you have in and, more importantly, who is surrounding yourself with? Okay, see, if you always...

...look at the world and go, oh, that's no good, that's no good, that's not working, it's easy for you to say, Choo's really stopping you from moving forward. Is it them, or is it you? I strongly believe in that, in that concept of surrounding yourself with. Me Personally, I surround myself with positive people. I know I just cannot stay people who were negative. Just kind of don't pick. The polls are done. I just stay away from negativity because there's too many negativity in the world and in the process of achieving great dreams. People with negative mindset will not be able to unders pen where you going, and this there is a quotation for that year. Some people so negative they have a problem for every solution. You can't. You taught them this grand vision that you want to do. No, that's not possible. You've not listen to what I'm going to...

...say. You just already concluded it is not possible. So now I have to spend my energy to convince you. Why I always saying no sort of situations. What do we also need to learn? You see, sometimes I do challenge myself. So they will be the odd people that will come out, and I would do I would do it purely because I cannot because of them. Yeah, I will leave little cookie crumbs because I feel that. Remember, we all come to our different stages of evolution, and just because they're not connected with you doesn't mean they're not going to get it with no one. And in order for us to presuppose that we are awake, that's also free. Suppose at one point we were asleep. So I try to be as nice as possible as I can. When it comes its these people really call upon you to have with utilize all the tools that you've had and just say, you know, how am I showing up? Because if I run away from those that Legacim don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I...

...go and spend time and like surround myself, I just I always challenge myself to question myself, like who am I as a person? So if I'm saying that one of my missions is to impact people a positive way, so if I go into their life, I want to do something positive rather than me being like everybody else running away, and that could be their number one problem as to why they're negative, because they don't feel like they're connector of anybody. They don't feel like they're needed. That O't show part of the community thing. With this global essence I will experiencing, it's the one time order in a similar boat. So if one of US feels somewhat disconnected for the community, they find another way to fulfill their behaviors. They're basic human needs. Anyway. Thank you, Sabrina. I've got to I could talk to you all day. Always, whenever I talk to you, I come up to fall a few real you be energized. You know thank you for having Mary appreciated me. Talk to you again next week. You take care of a good one and amazing Sabrina, an amazing, amazing lady, full...

...of positive words all the time. We're still good. More time to go. We still got another forty. Let me seats. You Got Fifteen minutes. I'm going to give Tony Your Pol.

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